Divorce Lawyer Pittsburgh
Telling Your Children About Your Divorce
Divorce can be emotionally devastating for parents and children alike. Here are some tips from family counselors on telling your kids about your divorce:
- Talk to the children together
- Give your children time to react and time to be mad and sad, and to ask questions
- Try to anticipate your children’s questions and reactions, and be prepared to respond
- Encourage your children to talk about their feelings
The reasons behind your divorce are likely not relevant to your children and generally should not be shared, the experts say. What children need is: to feel loved; to realize the divorce is not their fault; a sense of security; routine and structure; and not to be put in the middle.
To speak with an experienced Pittsburgh family law attorney, call Spivak Law Firm at (412) 344-4900 or toll free at (800) 545-9390.
Understanding Alimony in Allegheny County
Can you still get alimony even if you had an affair during the marriage?
Yes. Under Pennsylvania law, courts consider 17 factors when determining whether to order alimony. Adultery and other forms of marital misconduct represent just one of those factors. Other factors include the duration of the marriage, the standard of living established during the marriage, and the relative needs of the parties. Courts will consider adultery only if it occurred prior to the date of final separation between the parties. A person cannot continue to receive alimony after moving in with a new partner, unless the parties agree otherwise.
To speak with an Allegheny County divorce attorney, call Spivak Law Firm at (412) 344-4900 or toll free at (800) 545-9390.